Services

Couple Therapy & Counselling

Do you feel at a loss about where your relationship is heading? Do you feel that you and your partner are leading separate lives? Has your relationship stopped being as intimate and fulfilling as it used to be, or as you would like it to be? Do you find yourselves engaging in constant, repeated negative interactions characterised by criticism, conflict, disengagement and hurt? Has parenting your children become a burden and an unsatisfying task?

If any of the issues below are familiar to you and your partner, and you want help with the challenge of maintaining satisfying long-term relations, couple therapy could help you renegotiate your relationship and your life plan.

In my practice I meet with couples — cohabiting, dating, married, same-sex — who are suffering from any of the following

  • Communication and problem-solving difficulties
  • Repeated negative and conflictual exchanges: arguments and fights
  • Feelings of disconnectedness (physical and/or psychological), loneliness, ambivalence, mistrust, anger, jealousy
  • Divorce or separation concerns
  • Issues of intimacy versus autonomy
  • Psychosexual problems
  • Problems with infidelity and forgiveness
  • Disagreement on parenting styles
  • Life transitions and related stresses
  • Domestic violence

Distressed couples tend to have more physical health problems and unhappiness than non-distressed couples. They also appear to have more difficulty with parenting, and where they have children, their children tend to present more adjustment problems. Couple therapy contributes to a better understanding of distressing intimate relationships by taking account of specific behavioural patterns, belief systems, family-of-origin experiences and wider cultural factors in the formation and maintenance of the couple’s problems.

I offer confidential therapeutic sessions to couples to address mutually agreed treatment goals. I use a selection of therapeutic techniques stemming from years of training and practice. Following an eclectic therapeutic orientation stemming from narrative, solution-focused, cognitive-behavioural and race/culture/gender-sensitive therapy, I offer couples a non-judgmental and supportive environment in which to enhance their partnership and intimacy, improve their communication, and form a deeper and more satisfying relationship. I enable each person to be heard and to hear one another, as well as to voice concerns and state their desires and needs. In this way, I offer a practical approach to their problems, as well as a structured and goal-oriented therapeutic process.

Taking the first step

If any of this speaks to you, you are welcome to get in touch. The first meeting is an initial assessment — a chance for us to meet each other before deciding how, and whether, we will work together.

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